I’m a ‘straight’ girl who dabbles with kissing girls but only has relationships with guys. I guess this is pretty run of the mill these days. However, whenever i’m masturbating I only get off on watching lesbian porn. I fantasise about girls a lot and kind of girls only. Am I a lesbian in denial?

Sexuality isn’t a binary state, sweetheart. It’s not a one-or-the-other type thing. You’re not straight, nor are you a lesbian in denial. You just haven’t embraced your bisexuality yet. Don’t worry, you will.

Establishing your sexual identity is important, but try not to get caught up in labels. That’s the least important part of it.