NEED advice. My fuck buddy is going to be in St. Barths at the same time as me, and I don’t want to see him there because I might like him so I want to deal with it at home, not on vacation. But since I’m probably going to end up handing out with him there now, how do I play it so he realizes I like him/gauge if he likes me too?

You do not NEED advice. You NEED a reality check. You NEED to find the nearest soup kitchen or homeless shelter. You NEED to volunteer for the same number of hours you’ll be in St. Barts causing bullshit drama with a fuck buddy. Then maybe you’ll understand when it’s appropriate to use the word NEED.